An interest in giving up control of one's orgasms to someone else.
automatic interest suggestion : 50 out of 50
An interest in giving up control of one's orgasms to someone else.
created: 10 May 15 at 08:58 AM (build: 4/12/2015 6:11 PM beta)
closed: 26 May 15 at 08:28 PM (build: 4/12/2015 6:11 PM beta)
I think the definition is a little specific and, to some extent, can fall under 'Orgasm Denial.' Personally, I like this concept though. I think it just needs to have the focus be on control/being controlled rather than denial. Emphasis on forced orgasm, or some such like that, perhaps?
This is distinctly different from orgasm denial, I think, and I don't get the denial vibe from it. Denial's about keeping you in a state where you really want it but can't have it. Control can be much, much longer term, especially as part of a longterm dom/sub relationship. Certainly a major part of orgasm control is simply not letting you have them when you want them but when someone else wants them instead, though!
What part of simply not letting you have them when you want
isnt denial? I think to some extent, we're going to be arguing semantics about it.
That being said, I do understand the difference between the two, however I feel that we need to make sure our definition of the two is suitably different.
Is it possible that we could change Orgasm Denial
to be Orgasm Control
and then allow players to explain their preference on how that works? Whether it's more denial, or being forced to orgasm on command, or what have you?
Wrecked Avent Site Administrator
Some discussion, so I have moved this to needs discussion
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I would say either change Orgasm Denial to Orgasm Control. Essentially Orgasm Control is not just Orgasm Denial, but includes it, while Orgasm Denial does not encompass all of Orgasm Control.
Forgot to take out that little Either, lol.
Wrecked Avent Site Administrator
I would be for a rename to Orgasm Control
. I think we would have to still capture the essence of being denied in some kind of interest however, as long-term chastity and denial is a different interest than just being forced to have an orgasm or not being able to control when you orgasm.
So that would just indicate we have the two interests as suggested. Unblocking.
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