1 What is the value of dedicating this list to a spot on the UI, when it is only relevant to a certain subset of users? Why is the current behavior of the list evolving as you make actions not the appropriate solution to you? Do you find it confusing or distracting?
The value is attracting new users from that subset to join, and, speaking their language afterwards, thus making them feel “at home” and keeping them.
The current behavior is appropriate for me personally, because I understand it; I already understand Litphoria enough for my personal use and wants. With that said, the current behavior is not that effective (which is the word I'd use) with certain users because it does not speak their language, thus confuses them, and, in turn, sends them away from the site at first glance.
So it is neither confusing nor distracting for me, but it is probably confusing for a certain type of potential user, or at least...misleading and gives them a limited understanding of the possibilities on “this sexy story or roleplay” they were sent to or found while curiously browsing.
2 Why do you like 'online now' instead of the current term? I don't really care too much about what we call the list one way or another, but you seem to, so what does online now communicate to you that involved (in this session) doesn't?
I personally don't like “Online Now” instead of anything else; as soon as I understand the “meaning” of what's in front of me, the “label” that someone gives it can be irrelevant to me. I simply understand to an acceptable degree, from a marketing and NLP perspective, how to speak someone's language; how to clarify a concept to someone or even make them feel that it is an expression of part of their identity, simply by using the words that make sense to that person / client / user / consumer, etc. And based on this, I know that a box or column that emulates the “userlist” look, and has a label like “Online Now” excites and motivates a certain type of user of your service.
For that type of user (not me), instead of “involved (in this session)”, “Online Now” communicates to them that: These people are not part of or involved in this story or roleplay, period; no, these characters are right here on this page, right now, and they're doing this thing, roleplaying, right this moment; “I can potentially join these people right now if I feel that I have a place in this story and quickly create a convincing profile”. “I can possibly ‘chat’ with these guys now if I sign up!” “Hey, these guys are around now, together...they weren't just here an hour ago or something. There aren't just ‘active’ people here, but quite a bunch of them simultaneously online.” To use an MMO analogy, to that user, it's a difference between “Uber MMO has 5 million active users!” and “When I entered the human capital in Uber MMO, I saw like hundreds of people around; it was awesome!”