Identifying yourself as a sadist, masochist, sadomasochist or none of those (if you're not interested in pain stuff).
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Identifying yourself as a sadist, masochist, sadomasochist or none of those (if you're not interested in pain stuff).
created: 30 December 14 at 01:22 AM (build: 12/29/2014 12:13 AM alpha)
closed: 02 January 15 at 05:39 PM (build: 1/2/2015 4:49 PM alpha)
Wrecked Avent Site Administrator
Hmmm, I have a few problems with this.
First, the name is... not so good. I can't imagine searching with it:
find profiles with s/m/sm of sadist
Secondly, I would think an interest in sexual pain + d/s or top/bottom role would be able to determine if the person is a sadist or masochist (or give/receive when that's added in).
find bottom profiles into sadomasochism
Not necessarily. This character for instance is into sexual pain, dominant/switch, top/bottom-switch and a masochist. There's absolutely no way you'd be able to infer the masochism from the first three. The assumption works only if you're talking about traditional/formal BDSM, and falls apart otherwise.
But yeah, damn that name is ugly: S/M/SM? There has to be something better. SM Role maybe?
Could call it "Sadomasochism Role." or just "S/M Role" if you want it to closely mirror the format of the "D/S Role" trait (which, by the way, should probably have its S capitalized at some point.
Wrecked Avent Site Administrator
Jaime, you would be able to infer in most cases, and in cases where you can't, the give/receive + an interest would allow you to tell without error. Regardless of D/s or top/bottom, if you have "pain" as giving, it's clear you're a sadist, and if you have it as receiving, it's clear your a masochist.
Dom, I'd encourage more interests right now. I'm thinking about ways to deal with the inevitable clusterfuck, such as having people upvote interests which are related to make more coherent and useful categories of interests.
Wrecked Avent Site Administrator
Yeah, we've all seen how bad things can get... I'm going to see how good they can get.
Pain would be a better word for use I think. Pain (Receive, Give, Both) would mean you like giving or receiving pain. That would cover all instances of sadomasochism one can think of, which is different then Torture, which would be mostly to cause someone to be in distress either physically or mentally. I'm a feline, and I like my barbs, so I'm entitled to enjoy causing some level of Pain, doesn't mean I'm into S/M though!
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